November 23, 2010
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The introduction of Dr Evil
Let me introduce to you Dr Evil. Recently we have become friends and I have to say that Dr Evil is a welcome addition to my growing number of friends.
Dr Evil allows me to be the person I am and at times then encourages me to be more. Good or bad, right or wrong. There is a growing strength in our friendship that I have come to realize I have never had before. I can tell Dr Evil my most embarrassing moments, stupid (and I mean STUPID!) decision making choices, the results and outcomes and still feel comfortable in my skin around Dr Evil. There is not even the perception that I am being treated any different than any other person. This is refreshing as I am forging a new life for myself. That’s not to discount the already long standing friendship with the people who were there during those times of making mistakes and learning and growing because of them, but I have found a subtle shift from new friends when they learn things about me that make me the person I am today. Our pasts are our pasts, we can learn from what we have lived and encountered and become a more loving accepting person, or we can live in our closed little minds and not fully live at all.
Dr Evil is an intelligent, witty, actively fun loving person that enjoys good conversation and is then comfortable in the silence too. There is a connection that I’m not sure either of us understands, but we have both acknowledged it, and accept it for what it is. Both of us have been through some pretty dramatic and traumatic times in our recent pasts and neither of us looks at the other differently. We made the choices we thought were best for us at the time and live on.
