May 8, 2009
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yer havin’ a laugh!
I think I need to rethink my friends list. The in my life and lives very close to me friends list. And maybe those I add to my Facebook friends list. There are a couple very valid reasons for this strain of thought and it has been sifting through my conscious now and again, enough that I feel the need to post.
All too often I on Facebook lately I see the status updates of people that are making snide comments to another person. And I have to say …. Uhhhhh …. Huuulllooooo …. WE ARE NOT IN JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL ANYMORE PEOPLE! Even the few who are in highschool that are on my Facebook list (nieces and nephews!) don’t even talk like the supposed adults do! Get over it! Grow a set and pick up the phone and tell the person that is pissing you off, that they have pissed you off! And if they don’t answer the phone, leave a message telling them what you rang to tell them! And if your the person that is doing the pissing off action, suck it that you were told, and correct your actions. But really if you’re on my friends list I really don’t want to see “why don’t you answer your phone?”. Because I had to go to the toilet and just sat down when you rang and then I had to referee a fight between two siblings and then supper had to be made and the kitchen cleaned and children bathed and … and… and …
But really come on just send the person an FB email, write on their wall, leave a voice message …. but really …. “why don’t you answer your phone?” or “I hate that b*tch I hate that b*tch I hate that b*tch” come on! Ugh. Am I any better for posting this here? Yes because this is MY PAGE! I am not inflicting this on you unless you want to read. Its not going to show up on any news feed, unless you have subscribed, and it is certainly not entirely vague. But still, MY SPACE not one for everyone of your hundreds of friends to see! You know why? I’ve got a set that’s why! Besides, during a conversation at lunch today, most other people feel the same too! Look, if you’re not going to come right out and say, “Hey Candice why are you avoiding me?” then shut it and deal.
Now, how do you have a friend if you don’t like their children. I have a couple fraintances (more than an acquaintance but not really a friend) that I know and I really do not like their children. So I must really not like them either now that I think about it, because if their children are extensions of themselves and I really don’t like the children, then I must not like them. I seriously have not come across some children so spoiled and rude! Really it is to the point I will make an excuse to avoid a play date because I do not need my children learning such behaviour or being shown that such behaviour is acceptable! And I don’t want to invite such behaviour in to my house…..
I know how to edit my friends list on Facebook, now to delicately edit it in real life. Hmmmm “good luck with that!”
